But I never received a user and password.
Then you have to contact your hoster. Obviously we can't give it to you, we only support the tool (FileZilla).
Also on their screenshot the options at the bottom on filezilla are : connect, cancel, save and exit.
But my options are: connect, cancel, ok.
Forget the screenshots in that tutorial. The tutorial you posted is severely outdated, especially the screenshots. They are from a software that does no more exist (FileZilla 2). You have FileZilla 3, which is completely rewritten and is not 100% compatible in terms of GUI. Btw, 'OK' does the same as 'Save and exit'.
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